Konstantin Sargsyan Biography

Photo: Renat Chikaev. Go to the photobank of the Communist Party “Listen to the Heart - All the answers in it” actually, there were so many questions to the unusual interlocutor that it was not possible to meet the regulations. Each thought expressed gave rise to new emotions, questions, consonant “yes” or on the contrary - disagreement. But since neither for a long conversation, nor, moreover, there was no time for the discussion, they talked about the primary.

Did you manage to get impressions? So Bishkek is very reminiscent of Almaty. He is like a native. Streets, houses, atmosphere - it feels like I am in Kazakhstan. There is no feeling that I'm a guest here. In general, my childhood passed in Baku. This is probably why small cities seem so familiar and cozy. Tell the story of your formation as a specialist. How did you come to psychology?

At 12 I knew her by heart. He devoted five years of his life to the study of religions: Islam, Christianity, Buddhism. I repeatedly re -read the Qur'an. Mom was sure that the priest was growing in the family, because even my room looked like a temple - it connected all world religions in it. I was not a religious fanatic, but just looking for answers to questions.

Who are we? What is our purpose? Why are wars taking place in the world? Why did the neighbors with whom have been friends for years suddenly became our enemies overnight and we had to leave the country? But I did not find answers to my questions and closed the topic of religion, accusing God of all the troubles. And after a couple of years, I began to solve other people's dreams.

This happened until a close friend died. He told his dream, and I realized that he was waiting ahead.

I thought I could deceive death, and if I will be next to him at that moment, then nothing bad will happen. But near me, I was not at the age of 21, I returned to the sinful land again, went to the cinema, and took up directing. One fine day, my mentor, film director Sergei Alexandrovich Soloviev, asked: “Why are you fighting with God all the time? And gradually understanding came to me: no one is to blame for anything, everything that happens to people is their choice.

The first law of life: "The world begins with me." I try to convey this to the audience at my lectures and seminars today. The cinema that he had been engaged for 10 years turned out to be not my vocation. It is very important to understand for yourself who the world should remember you. There are many roads, but the true path is one. But, in fact, I just changed the tool - if you look at my work, you will understand that I did the same in the cinema: I helped people who are worried about fundamental issues.

My religious childhood led to the fact that I myself became a source of answers. Is it possible to influence the fate of a person? I do not solve the problem because they are not. People have questions. And the lack of answers to them gives rise to conflicts, illnesses, quarrels, and so on. My product is the soul and its inner limitless universe. Somewhere there is a little demon who controls the life of a person, and no one can find him and explain the cause of failures or troubles.

I call it. And the guarantee that he gave the correct answer is the state of happiness and harmony, to which, in the end, a person comes. There was a case in my practice. He turned to the client for help. At 30, a top lawyer in the largest company. Gorgeous apartment in the center of Moscow. Salary - 50 thousand dollars. I feel that I am not doing my job. ” He wanted to understand his purpose, and I told him that he should teach people.

Moreover, it was not about material values ​​- about spiritual. Hearing this, the man cried. It turns out that all his life he dreamed of teaching the basics of meditation. A year later, he became one of the most successful masters of yoga and meditation. Always listen to your heart. All answers are laid there. There is no rivalry between you? But when a person is self -sufficient, he will not prove anything to anyone, to assert himself at the expense of another or to subjugate himself.

Strong in spirit is not competing, but share - experience, strength, knowledge. If there are strong personalities next to you, then you yourself are like this, because Lviv always surround lions. Lana and I are self -sufficient, each of us is in its place. I do not get into her plate, she is in mine. But if you need to take care of each other, she will share with me, just like me with her.

Of course, I am a stronghold of wisdom in our family, I am turning to me for advice, asking me to help make the right choice. The only person from the close environment for whom I am not yet a teacher and authority is my four -year -old son. George has his own world, his own vision. And it pleases me very much. For example, I forbid to pull George in the presence of peers. It is impossible to undermine the authority of the child, this lays the foundation of inferiority.

It is best to take him aside, make a remark and explain that he made a bad deed. Also, there is no need to scold the elders, justifying the ugly actions of young children with the wording: “Do not touch it. He is younger than you! Boys should generally understand themselves.And one who is wrong, in the end, will understand that he is doing something unlawful in relation to society, and this society can give him change.

We should not deprive them of their experience. Wanting the children the best, we involuntarily deprive them of their lives, the ability to adapt to this world, to survive in harsh conditions. It is impossible to protect the child from everything. And this hyperopeck has nothing to do with education. This is related to your complexes, because someone once offended you in childhood, and mom and dad could not protect the main rule-do not play good parents, you will never become them.

Be just parents - caring, loving and fair. Love is the main thing that children want from us. Everything else is secondary. Do not break them - and you will be happy. Each of us should live with our soulmate, and it doesn’t matter what kind of nationality or religion it is. Only two parts of one whole are connected. Why outrage and torment each other, taking your place not your place?

The most stupid question that they ask me: how to understand that I met my soul mate? They don’t understand this, they feel it. But in order to feel, you need to live with an open heart, without suppressing the emotions and impulses of the soul. Found your love - learn to solve problems together, brick behind the brick to build your world. He begins with you, and only you are responsible for what is happening in it.